A SUCCESSFUL LIFE IN 7 STEPS - STEP 2

Hi,

I'm back.

Generally speaking we are all in the process of learning and true enough at this point of time I'm still learning something new about this technique that I'm discussing.

Here we go, together now.

Step 2. 

Most of us have a picture about ourselves that knock us down every time we get on our feet to move forward. We would hear in our mind, "you are not good enough", "it's better without you", "you never succeed in life", and so on......

The list is endless and you let the bully in your head beat you into a pulp, bruised and defeated you may choose to run away and put a brake in your life. But hey!!  Something's not right!! Why should we do beat ourselves down??.... because in the course of growing up we gather such negative thoughts and views from people around us doing exactly the same thing; beating themselves up.

So let's say goodbye to the negative thoughts that we have about ourselves and move on, Hmmmm..... How?

"CORRECT THE NEGATIVE REFLECTION OF SELF AND REPLACE WITH THE AUTHENTIC SELF."

Eg:

Negative: I'm good for nothing

Truth: I'm a capable individual who has contributed to society and is an important member in this family

Negative: Too fat

Truth: I'm attractive

Negative: I'm not smart enough to make it.

Truth: I'm among the top 3 percent of intelligent people in this world and who is smart enough to succeed is me. 

Reverse all the negative sign to positives and read to yourselves.

Next

We find our loving supporter in your life and your support sanctuary in your business.

We first find the candidate to give us the unconditional support that we need, could be your spouse, your parent, your best friend; someone whom you could depend on to give you the positive response and affirmations that motivates you; someone who believes that you are a greater person than you perceive yourselves to be and hold you responsible for it. 

Spend some time and think about it and KNOW the person....ask your loving supporter or support sanctuary the following questions:

1. What do you get out of me being in your life?

2. What have you gained from our relationship? Specifics.

3. What would be missing if I am not in your life?

4. What do you see as my strengths?

5. What can I do differently to improve our relationship?

6. If there were one word or phrase you’d use to describe our relationship, what would it be?

7. On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate our relationship?

8. (If anything less than 10) What can I do to make it a 10?

Now that you have done this, 

Then ask yourself, "Why do I have so many Loving supporters and Support Sanctuary in my life?"

You get the picture??....

You have just completed step 2 and made progress towards your success, continue to return for the rest of the Steps while they are being posted.... 

Wish you well... Bye for now.....